Is He Always Going To Think Of Me As The Crazy Girl?
Rani asks: My best friend got me and her childhood friend to start talking, but he lives 6 hours away from me and I’ve never met him. He told her initially he’s not looking for a gf, which was cool because I figured we could be friends. We talked for HOURS on the phone. For 4 months we were close. Then he started saying things like, I cant wait to see you, you’re so interesting, you’re my best friend. That got me really excited, and I thought maybe he meant as more than just friends.
I’d planned to meet him at a wedding near his place as a friend of mine had invited me. I told him about it, but then on the advice of my friends started playing games and told him I wanted to meet him, and then told him I didn’t… I was all over the map. And then I read He’s Just Not That Into You, which got me REALLY REALLY depressed. This girl in the book said, “I got empowered and I said I don’t need to talk to you anymore,” so that night I texted him confessing that I was into him and that it sucks when the guy your into doesn’t like you back. For 2-3 weeks after that he didn’t call.
I contacted him to see what was up because I got impatient, and he told me he was sorry for everything but just wanted to be friends. So we talked for two hours, and he said he might be coming with my brother to visit soon but, “Don’t go all nuts on me if I don’t”. I told him I’m cool – and I want to SHOW him that I’m cool. I regret playing games with this guy and really want to see him more than anything in the world. Do you think I can get him back, or is he always going to think of me as the crazy girl?
Is He Always Going To Think Of Me As The Crazy Girl? originally appeared on About.com Dating on Sunday, January 17th, 2010 at 17:18:06.
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